The rising divorce rate in the country is a reason for pause, to examine why so many couples get the point when they can no longer live with each other. Let’s first try to understand what makes men decide to file for divorce. It is often the women who will file for divorce, so let’s see if we can analyze another side of why marriages end so tragically.
Spending more time arguing than laughing
It’s only natural to disagree on things, but if you start arguing over the simple stuff like what each other wants to eat for dinner, it starts wearing you down. When couples are young and in love, they spend most of their time having fun and laughing. Just because you get married and take on more responsibilities, like having kids, doesn’t mean you have to stop smiling. Even when things go wrong and you have a terrible day, you have to take a break and remember why you fell in love in the first place.
Sex turns into a commodity
If your sex life turns into a scheduled business meeting, chances are you’re no longer “making love” and are merely fulfilling another chore with a brief intermission. As lives do get busier, it becomes even more important to make the most out of those precious moments alone. One partner shouldn’t be doing it as a favor to another, sex should be something you both look forward to. When a marriage shows signs of fizzling in the bedroom, that’s when things usually start to get stressful in the relationship. Men have a physical need to get their rocks off on a regular basis, but, contrary to popular belief, women benefit just as much as men from a daily dose of mind-blowing orgasms.
Loss of attraction
This reason also goes with the previous point. Women who become distant from men tend to let themselves go, physically, putting more distance between each other. It’s really not a sign of a healthy relationship when you can look at your lover and start looking at their flaws, whether it is a change in what they wear, body weight, skin care, and so on. You should be able to feel relaxed around your partner, however, taking care of yourself and dressing up for your lover once in a while will remind him why he married you and has eyes for no one else.