crush

First and foremost, ladies,  let’s admit that we cannot always get the man we like to like us back – or love us. I’ve witnessed how a friend so desperately chased the guy she has set her eyes on – and failed!

But, the thing is, all is not lost.  There’s a way to getting around the seemingly elusive apple of your eye.  Listen to what Jonathan Green, creator of the Girl Gets Ring System, has to say about attracting Mr. Right.

Nevertheless, let me also give you these simple “getting the man you like” tips, hoping your crush finally turns his eyes on you:

• Have self-confidence. Be happy with who you are and be ready to improve aspects of yourself that needed improvement. Any man would hesitate to come to you if you are aloof and shy.

• Project a good appearance. Being simple does not mean you have to be shabby.  Don clothes that flatter your body, but not too flashy, though, as to make you look eccentric.  Avoid showing too much skin because many men are turned off by women who look like a prostitute.  Observe proper hygiene.  Your dream guy may get turned off if your body smells or you have bad breath.

• Establish your own identity. Don’t pretend to be like someone you idolize. Usually, men are attracted to women who firmly stand on their standard of values.  Be who you are!

• Get to the guy in a natural and subtle manner. If he is not yet your friend, figure out how you may be introduced to him.  You may initiate a conversation with him about things you may have in common like school, sports, or organization.  Another way to get introduced to the guy is through a common friend. Most importantly, you must project a friendly and bubbly attitude when you strike a conversation with him.  But keep your initial talks short.  Don’t let ‘talkative’ or ‘noisy’ be his first impression of you.  Also, throw in a compliment, when necessary.  Maintain an eye contact with him as you speak, but don’t stare at him for a long time.